We went out to dinner with our neighbors tonight. As we were waiting for a table I noticed someone from my childhood walk in. I remembered him as the guy who beats his wife.

I remember his wife with a broken arm. I remember a lot of things my parents don’t realize I remember. My parents were good about protecting us from things we (in their opinion) shouldn’t know. I was VERY good at sitting quietly under the table.

He walked in like he owned the place with his wife and daughter and I’m guessing grandkids behind him. I watched him for a second and hoped like hell he wouldn’t recognize me. He was much too involved with himself to notice, so I was fine.

Then I remembered, as a 19-year-old at my first job, the phone in the break room was ringing. I answered it and it was him. He asked for his wife. She wasn’t around. I told him so.

He shouted, “Then why don’t you hang up the phone and not answer it again.”

I did.

About six seconds later the phone started ringing again. I sat there and waited. It rang probably 30 times before it stopped. It started ringing again before I made it half way down the stairs with my frozen dinner I stopped. Then I turned around picked up the phone and put it back on the receiver. Then I took it back off and left it hanging from the wall.

I never understood why she stayed with him. I still don’t. All I know is when I reached for my cell phone to throw it right at his fat ugly head it wasn’t in my purse.

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3 Responses to “Mr. Guy Who Beats His Wife, You Lucked Out.”

  1. Meredith - Thanks for dropping by. I’ll try and keep it up. Feel free to stop by and let me know what you think. I enjoy hearing from people.

    Kuntry - It does suck. I hope his daughter didn’t marry someone like her dad. She was such a cute kid. I also hope he stopped hurting his wife. But I doubt it. Just something about the way he walked in the room like everyone owed him something makes me doubt it.

  2. that sucks…..i don’t know either?! many abuse hits hardest psychologically, spiritually….it just suuuucks!

  3. ‘Ello. Dropped by your blog through the “Next Blog” button. Not bad at all. Think I’m going to subscribe to you through Google Reader. ;D Keep it up

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